I love the weekly Love and Logic tips I receive from Dr. Charles Fay and wanted to share this week's tip with you as I am sure we have all been caught in these situations.

When Kids Lie

There are few things that leave parents angrier, or more worried, than when their kids act "truthfulness-challenged." The good news about lying is that kids do it. What I mean is that all youngsters experiment with bending the truth, and it doesn't necessarily mean that they'll end up becoming con men, criminals or politicians. That is, as long as we can help them see that honesty really is the best policy.

One way of achieving this goal is to apply the following steps:
Use "I feel like you lied to me" rather than "You lied to me."
If your kid replies with "No, I didn't!" this allows you to say, "I know…but I feel like you did."

Help the child see lying as an index of maturity.
Achieve this by saying, "When I feel lied to, it makes me wonder whether you are mature enough to handle some of the privileges you enjoy around here, like television, your video games, and things like that."

In an empathetic way, let the child know that privileges will return when maturity goes up.
"The good news is that when you can prove to me that you are more mature, I'll know that it's time for you to have these privileges again."

Remember that parenting isn't like a jury trial: There's no need to prove guilt beyond a reasonable doubt.

Far too many parents get snowed by their manipulative kids and begin to wonder whether they are jumping to conclusions. I recommend trusting your heart and saying, "All I know is that I feel lied to, and I know that your life will be a lot happier if you learn how to avoid leaving people feeling that way."

For more tips on responding to lying, listen to Dr. Foster Cline's CD, Childhood Lying, Stealing and Cheating.

Thanks for reading! Our goal is to help as many families as possible.
Dr. Charles Fay

Happy Monday! I wanted to remind everyone of a few activites going on this week at Fisher.

This week is Red Ribbon Week.
Monday-wear team jerseys/shirts
Tuesday-wear crazy socks or hats
Wednesday-wear red
Thursday-wear sweat suits (or a sweat shirt) as the weather permits
Friday-Wear orange

Tuesday night, October 26, from 4:30-6:30 Frisco Reads will take place at Heritage High School.

Report cards will come home on Thursday, October 28.

Reflection entries are due this Friday, October 29. Please submit forms to Fisher's front office.

The Gary Burns Fun Run will be this Saturday, October 30, at Frisco Square starting at 8:00. Please come out and run/walk with the Fisher team.

Also, please do not allow students to wear Halloween costumes to school or bring treat bags to hand out in class since Halloween is not a scheduled party day.

The things we do for kids! First grade held their annual fairy tales day yesterday and it was so much fun! We had many Big Bad Wolfs, 3 Little Pigs, Little Red Hens, pre and post Cinderella, and Rapunzels. The kids did a super job with their costumes and classroom presentations. During their presentation, students told why they chose the character and a problem the character encountered in the fairy tale. As you can see, I had to get into costume for the morning as a fairy godmother, but did have several students ask if I was the tooth fairy. It was truly a fun and special day.

I want to say thank you to our Fisher staff, students, parents, and family members for all you do to support Fisher Elementary and make it the best place to go to school!

Boosterthon was a huge success and a lot of money was raised for Fisher. It was great to see all the parents and family members who came out to support students as they ran their laps. Mrs. Caras' Kindergarten class received the most pledges so Mrs. Caras was able to throw a pie in Steven's face, one of the Boosterthon representatives. We cannot thank you as parents enough for all of your support for Boosterthon!

Our Chick-fil-A Spirit Night was so much fun! The staff had a great time serving drinks and talking with parents and students at the event. We truly appreciate all the support you showed by attending! Our money totals from the night should arrive soon so we will know just how much money YOU helped raise for Fisher.

A few reminders:
Don't forget to send in your Boosterthon money. The deadline is next Wednesday, October 13.
Collections have started for Barktoberfest so bring in your secondhand/unwanted dog items to donate.
Monday is Parent/Teacher Conference Day so there will be no school.
October 12 is the visit from the Frisco Fire Clowns.
October 13 Author Anastasia Suen visits
October 15 is the deadline to earn a popcorn party for 100% PTA classroom membership.